One of the assumptions of being in community is that we will be there for one another in times of need, and all of us will have the opportunity, at times, to care for others and to be cared for ourselves. Most of us, though, have trouble asking for help or letting others know when we are struggling.

Creating a caring community, however, is a two-way street: we must all be willing to help at times and to receive at times. Subtly (and sometimes, not so subtly), we all know when someone is always caring for others but not ever letting others in. This one-way street can lead to resentment on both sides -- no wants to be someone else's project and the person who doesn't let others in will feel forgotten and neglected when they are in need.

December's theme of spiritual growth can give us all the chance to practice what we preach -- becoming a genuine caring community by both giving and receiving care when we are in need. It is a spiritual practice to trust others enough to share our lives and our needs.

I also am your full-time minister and that means I am here, as well, to be part of the circle of caring hands and hearts.

These are times I would welcome your call and hope that you will call someone in our community:
-- If you lose your job.
-- If you or someone close to you is diagnosed with a serious illness.
-- If there is a death in your family.
-- If you or someone close to you is in trouble with the law, arrested or in jail.
-- If you have a serious court case.
-- If you need help getting to a doctor's appointment, the hospital or other important appointment.
-- If you are feeling down or depressed.
-- If you want to talk about spiritual issues.
-- If you are getting married.
-- If you want your children dedicated or blessed in the church.
-- If you are struggling over vocational issues.
-- If you are struggling with marital issues or facing divorce.
-- If your children are struggling in any way.
-- If you are dealing with transitions with parents.
-- If someone close to you enters hospice care.
-- If you want to know more about Prairie or want to serve in some aspect of the church's life.
-- If you just want to chat over coffee.

I imagine that there are many other times when you might call me or a friend at church. My hope is that you will give your community the opportunity to help you in times of need and to be with you in times of celebration. This is how you will personally grow spiritually within our church and how we will, all together, create the Beloved Community.